Booking a mediumship reading is a profound step on a journey of healing and discovery. Whether you are seeking evidence that a loved one has transitioned safely or you are looking for guidance from the spirit world, your own energy plays a vital role in the connection.
A mediumship reading is a three-way energy exchange between the Spirit world, the Medium, and the Sitter (you). To help create the clearest channel possible, here is how you can prepare for our time together.
1. Set Your Intentions
Before the session, spend a few moments in quiet reflection. Think about who you would like to hear from. While a medium cannot “summon” a specific spirit—as they have their own free will—simply putting the invitation out into the universe can help draw their energy closer.
A Tip from the Heart: Don’t feel you need to “test” the medium by withholding information or staying silent. Come with the intention of having an open, loving conversation.
2. Release “The Script”
We often go into a reading hoping to hear one specific word or a mention of a very specific item. While specific evidence is the goal of any good reading, Spirit often brings through what we need to hear, rather than exactly what we want to hear.
Try to stay open to whoever shows up. Sometimes a distant relative or an old friend comes through first to “clear the way” for your closer loved ones.
3. Create a Sacred Space
If we are meeting virtually, your physical environment matters.
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Privacy: Ensure you are in a quiet room where you won’t be interrupted.
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Comfort: Have a glass of water nearby and perhaps a notebook if you wish to jot down symbols or names that might make more sense later.
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Technology: Check your connection ahead of time so we can focus entirely on the spirit world rather than the Wi-Fi.
4. Manage Your Energy
Try to avoid a “rushed” feeling. If you rush into a reading straight from a stressful meeting or a hectic commute, your energy may be scattered. Take five minutes before we begin to:
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Breathe deeply.
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Visualize your energy being grounded and calm.
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Set aside any skepticism or “fear of the unknown.”
5. The “Validation” Mindset
During the reading, I will provide pieces of evidence – descriptions, memories, or personality traits. Your role is to validate these with a simple “Yes,” “No,” or “I’m not sure.”
If something doesn’t click immediately, don’t worry! Often, a piece of information that seems “off” during the session becomes perfectly clear a few days later after you’ve had time to reflect or talk to other family members.
After the Reading
The energy of a reading continues to unfold long after the session ends. Give yourself grace and time to process the emotions that arise. Spirit communication is a gift of healing, and the messages shared are meant to support you as you move forward on your path.
Are you ready to connect with the world of Spirit? If you feel the pull to reach across the veil, I would be honored to hold that space for you.

